You've been
dating a guy for some time but you're still not sure what your intentions are.
In spite of what your intuition tells you, you need something that tells you
what position he is in, but you do not really know what the signs are that a
man passes you.
It is
normal that many times it costs us to accept that a boy has passed away from
you and has lost interest, especially if we love and unlike him, our interest
is sky high. Look at these signs and if he is definitely not interested, let
him go and pay attention to you. Because woman, you're worth a lot and you do
not need to try to get anyone's attention.
6 signs
that a man passes you and is not interested
As much as
it hurts in the heart but especially in our ego, it is better to realize the
reality of the relationship and that the blow does not take us unawares, nor
continue investing time and energy in something that will not bear fruit.
If the man
you go out with passes you, it is better than you know; and if you are sensing
it, you must listen to it, so pay attention to these 6 signs that indicate that
it has no interest in you.
1. You are
one of the initiatives
When they
started to leave, this guy wrote to you constantly, he invented new plans to be
able to see you and invited you to leave, but lately, it is you who must take
the initiative, propose that they look and look for him. If this is so, it is a
very clear indication that this boy is no longer interested and it is best that
you leave it and put your effort elsewhere, it is unlikely that he will change
his mind.
2. Cancel
and postpone plans together
In line
with his lack of initiative, another thing that may be happening is that every
time they have a scheduled appointment he cancels it or changes it for another
time. As much as it hurts, if this is happening it means that you stopped being
their priority and do not want to spend time together.
It is
possible that you try even more to stay with him or find a way to get his
attention again, but the only thing that will take you away is to hurt yourself
and your self-esteem. If you are not interested then you have to close the
cycle and move on, someone else will arrive and in any case, you have to be
happy.
3. Do not
pay attention to your things
Another
sign that a man passes you is the lack of attention in you and your things. He
does not remember the stories you tell him, your anecdotes, nor does he ask you
how you are doing. What you should ask yourself is why you would continue to
give attention to someone who is not interested in seeing your light, so do not
stay there and move on.
4. You
communicate little with you
The days of
endless chats by WhatsApp until midnight or waking up with a message from him
waiting for you on your mobile have been left behind. On the contrary, you are
the one who looks for it, the one who sends the messages in an attempt to keep
your interest, but he reads them late and even ignores them, leaving the double
blue check without responding.
A clearer
sign that this may not be there and it is up to you to decide the place where
you put and measure your value. That is, if you will wait for answers that will
not arrive or if you make the decision to leave it there and accept that it is
not the right man for you.
5. They
only look at home
Something
that happens very frequently and that, in many cases, can be even worse, is
that the boy is not interested in you but is interested in having sex. What
happens in these cases is that now they only stay at home for that and that's
it. They have not gone out together and in reality, the talk between the two is
totally false, at least on his part.
You must
take care of this type of toxic situations, because if it is not what you are
looking for in it, you are in a vulnerable position that can hurt you, and the
only one that can really take care of you and your heart is yourself.
6. It does
not look for you after having been
The last of
the signs that a man passes you is that after having an appointment does not
seek you. We are not even talking about it disappearing forever, but it is
quite likely that the first times they saw him he contacted you by message or
some way the next day, maximum two days later.
But if this
has stopped happening and the time passes for this boy to look for you, surely
your intuition and that distaste that you are having is clearly speaking to you
that he is no longer interested and you have to get away. You deserve to be in
the places and with the people who can see your light and how wonderful you
are; with someone by your side who feels lucky because of your presence and
makes you feel great.
